What it describes
Your deep emotional need is a relationship that carries meaning beyond the couple itself. You need to feel that what you build together also serves something larger, a cause, a shared ideal.
In practice, you thrive with someone capable of generosity, who understands that your attention sometimes reaches beyond the intimate circle, without reading it as disinterest in the relationship itself. A relationship too folded in on itself can come to feel stifling to you in the long run.
I need our relationship to serve something bigger than us too.
Does your current relationship leave room for what is larger than you, or do you sometimes feel a circle drawn too tight around you?
How it is calculated
Only the vowels of your full birth name are kept: A, E, I, O, U, and Y when it sounds like a vowel.
Each one is given its value — A is 1, E is 5, I is 9, O is 6, U is 3 — those values are added together, then reduced to a single digit, except 11, 22 and 33, which are kept.
The vowels are taken as the carriers of what is felt rather than what is shown. That is why this number describes a need, not a behaviour.
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A worked example
Take the name MARIA DIALLO. Only the vowels are kept.
A 1 · I 9 · A 1 · I 9 · A 1 · O 6
Added together, that gives 27, then 2 + 7 = 9 — soul urge number 9.
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