What it describes
Your deep emotional need is to be respected as an equal, never mothered nor diminished. You need your ambition and your success to be supported, never seen as a threat by the other person.
In practice, you thrive with someone who is not afraid of your strength, who celebrates your successes without jealousy, and who treats you as a full partner in the important decisions, financial ones included. If anyone sets out to belittle you, the relationship spoils fast.
I need pride in return, not a sense of threat.
Is your success celebrated in your relationship, or sometimes a source of tension?
How it is calculated
Only the vowels of your full birth name are kept: A, E, I, O, U, and Y when it sounds like a vowel.
Each one is given its value — A is 1, E is 5, I is 9, O is 6, U is 3 — those values are added together, then reduced to a single digit, except 11, 22 and 33, which are kept.
The vowels are taken as the carriers of what is felt rather than what is shown. That is why this number describes a need, not a behaviour.
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A worked example
Take the name MARIA HAYES. Only the vowels are kept.
A 1 · I 9 · A 1 · A 1 · E 5
Added together, that gives 17, then 1 + 7 = 8 — soul urge number 8.
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